Wife swapping is often looked down on as the domain of sexual deviants and those that can’t find pleasure in each other so they have to look elsewhere. If you want to become a swinger then you know that it’s none of those things. Instead, it’s a beautiful expression of love and understanding. It’s a gift a couple explores together, a couple that knows about the power of sex and even more so about the power of sex with someone new and how it can bring them together. That’s why you want to find a wife swapping couple, right? Hopefully this helps you do so.
You’re guaranteed to find wife swappers such a couple if you go to a swing party or swinger’s club, although gaining entrance to either can be difficult. Almost every party requires an invitation and that invitation requires knowing someone or being vetted. If you show crash such a party you will be ejected immediately and with prejudice. Swinger clubs often require paid membership, although some are just a cover charge. If you’re a first timer then use the internet to look up a club and go out on a Friday or Saturday night looking your best as a couple. Don’t get drunk but instead dance your asses off and be social with everyone. If you feel chemistry with a couple then don’t be afraid to take it further. You can ask them to hook up or just ask for their number to plan something in the future.
If you get really lucky you can meet a wife swapping couple in the real world. This is an exceedingly dangerous practice though since more often than not you’re going to be wrong and you’ll have outed yourselves as swingers when you probably didn’t want to. Never approach someone in your hometown with such a question since that could be disastrous. The only time to do it is when you’re on vacation and feeling bold. Swingers don’t really give off any signals that make it obvious what they’re into so you’ll just have to ask. If you’re going to be so bold you should prepare for rejection and a little embarrassment.
The best and safest way to find a wife swapping couple is to use a swing lifestyle dating website ( Top 5 Swinger Dating Sites) or one that’s friendly to swingers. You’ll find a section on our site that highlights five of the best sites for this type of thing. It’s on those sites that you’ll find thousands of couples in any given city. A club might have a few hundred on a really popular night. A good website will have 50,000 couples in your city. The difference is huge!
If you’re going the website route you’ll still have to put in the effort. You’ll need good pictures and a well-written, specific (emphasis on this!) profile heading and text. Don’t be overly prosaic or longwinded. Instead, get to the point and be specific. Once you have your profile setup you should browse others and send as many messages as you can handle on that first night. From there it’s all about responding honestly to the responses you get and carrying on a conversation that leads to a face to face meeting with a wife swapping couple. It can be a long and arduous process because there are so many considerations and four people instead of two, but when you finally make that connection and have the wife swapping experience you’ve been dreaming of you’ll be utterly blown away and convinced that you need to go back for more because nothing could be more pleasurable.