How to throw a swingers party
Having your own swing party is a good idea as it will help ingratiate you with the local swing community, will have you at your most comfortable, and will be a darn good time. If you’re going to do it you need to do it well and here are some tips to ensure that throwing a swingers party is a big success.
1) Remember to organize the party 30-60 days in advance. You want to give everyone time to clear their schedules and make sure you’re not competing with another party. If you already know the attendees that’s all you really have to do. If you’ll be inviting strangers you’ll need time to vet each guest. You absolutely must meet or at least talk to all attendees beforehand. Inviting a total stranger is inviting chaos and madness into your home and can ruin the party before it even starts.
2) Clean the house! No swing party should take place in a dirty, cluttered environment. You need to understand that at your party people are going to be having sex and you need to set the environment for that. If people are tripping over toys, stepping on pizza boxes, or clearing junk out of the room they’ve scurried off to in order to have sex then you haven’t done your job.
3) When throwing a swingers party, designate which rooms are to be used for socializing and which are more private spaces for the sexual activity that’s bound to fill a swing party. Be sure to denote which is which and provide proper lighting. Candles might seem like a good idea but they’re too much of a fire hazard to risk so skip them.
4) Any bedroom used for sexual play should have fresh sheets. You should also have back ups ready to go in case someone makes a mess (if a girl is a squirter then she’s going to make a mess). People can be unpredictable when they’re having sex so be prepared.
5) Decide if you’ll provide toiletries and let everyone know. Guests at a swing party typically require clean towels to wipe off after the sex is over and may want to clean up with mouthwash, a toothbrush, etc. If you’re going to provide those things make note of it on the invitation. If not let everyone know they’ll need to supply their own (the best party hosts take care of the toiletries).
6) Designate a smoking area. Even if you’re a smoker it’s not a good idea to let everyone smoke in the house. Some of your guests will be non-smokers and some of them with loathe smoke enough that they’ll leave if people are smoking. Instead, designate an outdoor area for smoking and provide ashtrays.
7) You need to have parking. Unless you’re in a city with ample public travel options you’ll need to ensure there’s parking nearby. If your guests are coming by car and there’s absolutely nowhere for them to park or it’s incredibly expensive there’s a good chance your party won’t be well-attended.
8) If you have a pool or spa and want your party guests to use it, make sure it’s clean and prepared to be enjoyed by all. Consider it carefully though. If there’s an accident you’re liable and accidents often happen around the pool.
9) Clear any pets and young ones out of the way. Dogs and children are cute, but if you have them at your swing party you’re a terrible host. The children should stay at a friend’s house for the night and your pet should be put away in an unused room and provided with a place to sleep and water to ensure there isn’t any noise.
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