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Guide To Becoming A Swinger

There are many questions about swinger parties. It’s good to gather information before you to go such a shindig since you don’t want to be the goofball that ruins it for everyone. Here are five of the most popular questions along with answers that should help you experience the best of what being a swinger is about.

 

1) Who will I meet at a swinger party?

You tend to meet just about everyone at swinger parties. They’re all inclusive for a variety of reasons, but mostly it has to do with the fact that the swinger community is astoundingly mature, grounded, and keen on experiencing all things sexual. That’s why couples in their 20’s and 50’s will mingle together and sometimes head off to a bedroom to have some fun. That’s why black, white, Latin, and Asian couples can often be found at the same party. That’s why religions of all kinds (including some that may surprise you) will be represented. It’s about the passion and pleasure that can be found in connecting with new people of all kinds.
 
 

2) How do I get invited to a swinger party?

If you’re a single guy you should probably forget about it. There’s very little demand for single men since the guys in swinger couples don’t want anything to do with you and the women don’t really play alone. The only time a guy gets invited is if a husband likes to watch. Instead, you need to be a couple or a single girl. Some women are invited because many swinging wives are bisexual and husbands rarely have a problem with a threesome involving a girl or just watching their wives go lesbian for a night. Obviously more couples are always welcome at a swing party. You’ll typically need to pass a screening process as swingers have little interest in inviting someone totally new and untested to the group.
 
 

3) Do I need to bring anything to a swinger party?

It’s usually smart to bring condoms and any clean up supplies you might want (towel, toothbrush, mouthwash, wipes, etc). Condoms will almost always be supplied but it never hurts to have your own, particularly if you enjoy a certain kind or brand. Just be prepared to use the provided condoms in case the person you’re with is weird about you having your own. Some parties ask that you bring your own alcohol, although it’s never required. In general the invitation will state what you should bring.
 

4) Is it hard to hold my own party?

It’s actually quite easy. The only challenge is finding people to invite if you’re new to the community. Otherwise, you just need the space, the desire to host a party, and the will to prepare your place for the arrival of your guests. Make sure you have lots of condoms, lots of space to accommodate your sexing guests, and a nice soundtrack to keep the mood right. Having nosy neighbors is a very bad thing if you’re going to host a party.
 
 

5) What’s the difference between club parties and house parties?

Club parties always require you to pay to get in and house parties are almost always free of charge. At a club you’ll have to be a member, which means paying for a membership in addition to the entrance fee. Before you go to the club party make sure you find out if you’re allowed to have sex or if you’ll need to find a separate location and the club is really just about meeting someone. Some clubs allow way more single guys, which can get really annoying, whereas swinger parties at homes almost never feature single guys. House parties are safer if you need discretion.
 

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